Our Support

Bringing secular couples together

The faith based beliefs and practices of an individual are result of his or her exposure and orientation gained from family & society, so is the case of secular values. Couples with different faiths are the best examples of secularism because of their beliefs related to secularism, which are repeatedly put to test at their home. For them there is no room for difference between preaching and practice.

To promote secular values, we decided to organize couples with inter-faith/caste background. We are keen to highlight the mixed religious and cultural practices that are the bulwark of secularism.

Share experiences and offer a platform for support

A couple, with different faith or caste that decides to get into a marital relationship, primarily believes in secular and human values. But, their practices based on secularism and faith/culture are put to test by their immediate surroundings.

Dialogue between the couple to develop a common understanding about their future actions is the best method to avoid marital conflicts. Parents and adults play a decisive role in their decision making process. Unfortunately the role of parents and adults in the inter-faith/caste marriages is none or negligible.

We offer a platform for such couples to share their views and experiences with others with similar background.

Dhanak doesn’t profess standard practices for inter-faith/caste couples. Rather, sharing of personal examples by its members help a couple in the decision making process. The sharing is done either in face to face meetings or online.

Legal, Financial and other Support by Dhanak

Usually a couple gets in touch with Dhanak when they decide to get married, or when they face challenges in solemnizing their marriage. Also, couples facing physical and mental torture from their parents both before or after their marriage, seek our help. Solemnization or registration of marriage under Special Marriage Act (SMA) is the biggest challenge for a couple who wish to get married without any religious conversion. Dhanak provides legal advice and guidance to such couples and help them with their marriage.

We are in the midst of developing a relevant database, booklets, training material to address issues related to religious co-existence and inter-faith / caste marriages.

We are collecting and collating secondary and primary data related to the marriages solemnized and registered in Special Marriage Act and Hindu Marriage Act in Delhi and NCR.

We are also collecting secondary data from other cities like Bhubneshwar, Jaipur etc. with the help of groups and individual activists who are working on Right to Information Act. Similarly, we are also writing about the various syncretic communities like Cheeta-Kathat, Nath Jogis, Moola Jats etc. based in India. The collected information is helping us in highlighting the presence of syncertic communities which never got recognition by the national politics and academia.

6 thoughts on “Our Support

  1. I love a girl want to marry her i belong to SC she is rajput she told her dad n he totally refused and the girl has stopped talking to me she is not willing to talk to me she is saying she cant go against her dad.
    I am very tensed what to do how to make the girl realise she has to take a stand and talk to her dad regarding this.
    Pls help
    Tushar Samar Singh


  2. यह संगठन ईस्वर के दिए हुए दुनिया के सबसे खूबसूरत तोहफा को संरक्षित कर आज मानव समाज मे मानवीय मूल्यों को स्थापित कर ईस्वर के रूप में जीता जागता उदाहरण है।
    मानव समाज मे रूढ़िवादी विचारों को समाप्त कर वृहद स्तर पर वास्तविक रूप में आधुनिक भारत का निर्माण करने का साहस और पीड़ा इस संगठन ने उठाया है जिसके लिए हमसब पूरी आजन्म आभारी रहेंगे।
    आपके इस कठिनात्मक कार्य के लिए भारत एक दिन जरूर गर्वअन्वित महसूस करेगा साथ ही साथ जाति, धर्म की बेड़िया भी टूटेंगी ।
    बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद धनक संगठन


  3. Hi,

    Hope this finds you in good cheer.
    I run a website – http://armchairlounge.com/ – covering various topics close to my heart. I am otherwise a Senior Technical Writer with Pitney Bowes, but want to do what I can to bring the helpful work your organization is doing to as amny readers as I can.

    I’d like to do an article on your NGO, covering its objective, roadmap, hurdles, resources, examples of the work done, and the motivation you draw from such incedents to go out there and help. For this, I’d like to conduct an interview with the program manager, and a couple may be – anonymously if required.

    If this sounds good, please reach out to me at +91-9560825758, and deboshri.paul@gmail.com.

    Warm Regards,
    Deboshri Paul


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